As far as I know you are not missing much.
There was some bugs affecting this part already solved. Also in some update there was mandatory manual action about resting regex filters.
So if you are updated, did not miss that action you are fine.
Default settings of fail2ban (netfilter) are pretty loose.. Unless you are targeted by some brutal force, high intense attack you will not se any bans,… Check this docker compose logs netfilter-mailcow | grep "Banning" on stock config I see 3 bans in last month all only for 30 minutes. To be able to see them in UI you must sit there all the time,…