Ah, that’s a good point, I’ll try with the IP address.
To illustrate the problem though, this is the host lookup of the relay host:
host outboundary.lawyersonline.co.uk
outboundary.lawyersonline.co.uk has address 78.31.107.192
outboundary.lawyersonline.co.uk mail is handled by 50 securereceive.lawyersonline.co.uk.
and this is how a mail is being processed in mailcow:
87F13A2945: to=<sfgreenwood@gmail.com>, relay=none, delay=502, delays=471/0.06/30/0, dsn=4.4.1, status=deferred (connect to securereceive.lawyersonline.co.uk[35.246.35.152]:2525: Connection timed out)
At no point am I adding securereceive.lawyersonline.co.uk anywhere. This would also be the MX record of the lawyersonline.co.uk domain. When I first added the relay host I thought I caught a log entry that referred to checking the MX record but I can’t find it now.