Ok, let me guess: 3 months ago you set up your mailcow without Cloudflare. The certificate was issued without problems because Cloudflare was not interfering with your ACME container.
Then you set up Cloudflare following some kind of tutorial, and now, 3 months later, the certificate expired because the renewal process of the ACME container isn’t working anymore because of Cloudflare.
Is this what happened?