You can try to set up your development server as authenticated client (relay). You can use Postfix, important part of your config could be like this
##/etc/postfix/main.cf
...
# do not accept connection from outsite this instance is local only
inet_interfaces = loopback-only
inet_protocols = all
# your mailcow that will do final delivery
relayhost = your.mailcow.ltd
# log to mailcow as user
smtp_sasl_auth_enable = yes
# how to log
smtp_sasl_password_maps = hash:/etc/postfix/sasl_passwd
# some securty settings,...
smtp_sasl_security_options = noanonymous
smtp_use_tls = yes
smtp_tls_mandatory_ciphers = high
smtp_tls_mandatory_protocols = !SSLv2, !SSLv3, !TLSv1, !TLSv1.1
smtp_tls_CAfile = /etc/ssl/certs/ca-certificates.crt
....
##/etc/postfx/sasl_passwd
# server user:pass (how to log)
your.mailcow.ltd username:password
some commands to finish
chmod 600 /etc/postfix/sasl_passwd
postmap /etc/postfix/sasl_passwd
service postfix reload
# test it, every mail send by system mail function should by relay to your mailcow
echo 'test' | mail -s 'test' you@example.com